Resources

This is a compilation of great resources for couples, individuals, families, parents, partners of SAs and even SAs themselves.  

For Couples:

Fierce Intimacy by Terrence Real - Audible only (Not ideal for early betrayal recovery)

The New Rules of Marriage by Terrence Real 

The Four Horsemen by John Gottmen 

Facing Love Addiction by Pia Mellody 

The Intimacy Factor by Pia Mellody 


12 Step group work for couples 

https://recovering-couples.org


Betrayal Trauma Recovery -

Podcasts - 

https://helpingcouplesheal.com/trust after betrayal 

https://helpingcouplesheal.com/pact-therapy-attachment-and-betrayal-trauma-with-stan-tatkin-pysd-mft

https://www.blogtalkradio.com/betrayalrecoveryradio

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcasts-help-her-heal-with-Carol-the-coach/id1376842008?i=1000468853372

https://www.youtube.com/c/Jacobporter1/videos

Books - 

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse by Barbara Stephens, Ph.D

Moving Beyond Betrayal by Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Mending a Shattered Heart by Stephanie Carnes  

Out of the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes  (for SA)

Facing the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes (for SA)

Letters from a Sex Addict: My life Exposed by Dan Drake & Wendy Conquest  (for both partners and SAs) 

12 step work for betrayed partners 

http://www.isurvivors.org/meetings/phone-meetings/

https://cosa-recovery.org

https://sanon.org 


Your Sexually Addicted Spouse by Barbara Stephens, Ph.D

Moving Beyond Betrayal by Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Mending a Shattered Heart by Stephanie Carnes  

Out of the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes  (for SA)

Facing the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes (for SA)

Letters from a Sex Addict: My life Exposed by Dan Drake & Wendy Conquest  (for both partners and SAs) 

Worth of Her Trust by Stephen Arterburn / Jason Martinkus (Helping the betrayer repair and understand the depths of betrayal trauma) 


For Individuals

Facing Co-dependency by Pia Mellody (Family of Origin Dysfunction and it's impact) 

The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie - Daily reflections

Self Compassion  by Simeon Lindstrom

Change your Questions Change your Life by Marilee Adams - Helping people become aware of negative thought patterns and how to shift from  "Judger to Learner". 

For Parents:

Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster Cline & Jim Fay

Parenting Teens with Love and Logic by Foster Cline & Jim Fay 

Dr. Jeff Bernstein - 

https://www.drjeffonline.com/my-books

Abuse

Why does he do that? Into the Minds of controlling and angry men by Lundy Bancroft 

Gaslighting by Stephanie Sarkis 

The Gaslight Effect by Dr. Robin Stern & Nan McNamara 

Organization created by Lundy Bancroft - Expert on abuse 

https://peaklivingnetwork.org



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