This is a compilation of great resources for couples, individuals, families, parents, partners of SAs and even SAs themselves.
For Couples:
Fierce Intimacy by Terrence Real - Audible only (Not ideal for early betrayal recovery)
The New Rules of Marriage by Terrence Real
The Four Horsemen by John Gottmen
Facing Love Addiction by Pia Mellody
The Intimacy Factor by Pia Mellody
12 Step group work for couples
https://recovering-couples.org
Betrayal Trauma Recovery -
Podcasts -
https://helpingcouplesheal.com/trust after betrayal
https://helpingcouplesheal.com/pact-therapy-attachment-and-betrayal-trauma-with-stan-tatkin-pysd-mft
https://www.blogtalkradio.com/betrayalrecoveryradio
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcasts-help-her-heal-with-Carol-the-coach/id1376842008?i=1000468853372
https://www.youtube.com/c/Jacobporter1/videos
Books -
Your Sexually Addicted Spouse by Barbara Stephens, Ph.D
Moving Beyond Betrayal by Vicki Tidwell Palmer
Mending a Shattered Heart by Stephanie Carnes
Out of the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes (for SA)
Facing the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes (for SA)
Letters from a Sex Addict: My life Exposed by Dan Drake & Wendy Conquest (for both partners and SAs)
12 step work for betrayed partners
http://www.isurvivors.org/meetings/phone-meetings/
Your Sexually Addicted Spouse by Barbara Stephens, Ph.D
Moving Beyond Betrayal by Vicki Tidwell Palmer
Mending a Shattered Heart by Stephanie Carnes
Out of the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes (for SA)
Facing the Shadows, by Patrick Carnes (for SA)
Letters from a Sex Addict: My life Exposed by Dan Drake & Wendy Conquest (for both partners and SAs)
Worth of Her Trust by Stephen Arterburn / Jason Martinkus (Helping the betrayer repair and understand the depths of betrayal trauma)
For Individuals:
Facing Co-dependency by Pia Mellody (Family of Origin Dysfunction and it's impact)
The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie - Daily reflections
Self Compassion by Simeon Lindstrom
Change your Questions Change your Life by Marilee Adams - Helping people become aware of negative thought patterns and how to shift from "Judger to Learner".
For Parents:
Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster Cline & Jim Fay
Parenting Teens with Love and Logic by Foster Cline & Jim Fay
Dr. Jeff Bernstein -
https://www.drjeffonline.com/my-books
Abuse
Why does he do that? Into the Minds of controlling and angry men by Lundy Bancroft
Gaslighting by Stephanie Sarkis
The Gaslight Effect by Dr. Robin Stern & Nan McNamara
Organization created by Lundy Bancroft - Expert on abuse